{"id":97,"date":"2005-08-25T12:32:52","date_gmt":"2005-08-25T12:32:52","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2005-09-09T10:14:52","modified_gmt":"2005-09-09T10:14:52","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.larcompendium.com\/site\/?p=97","title":{"rendered":"Tetsugaku 37 : Strengths"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; When asked to name a strong point, something you can say &#8220;I&#8217;m better at this than other people&#8221; about, what comes to mind?<br \/>\n[Let&#8217;s see, I&#8217;m relatively quick about making changes, aren&#8217;t I? Even I think &#8220;I&#8217;ve changed!&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; That takes a lot of strength, doesn&#8217;t it? Even when it requires something you hate doing, you don&#8217;t let it drag on much?<br \/>\n[Hmmmm&#8230;&#8230; Well, it doesn&#8217;t really matter if I let it drag on or not. I get the change made. When your needs are pressing, you have to change. Even if I formerly held a certain opinion, if I think there needs to be a change, I&#8217;ll contradict it. Not moving forward is a waste of time. Well, that just means I&#8217;m &#8220;sloppy&#8221; about going back on my word (laughs).]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; You call yourself sloppy? tetsu-san, you aren&#8217;t the stubborn type?<br \/>\n[Deep down, I really don&#8217;t want to be stubborn. I want to have a soft head <a href=\"node\/97\/#1\">(1)<\/a><a name=\"b1\"><\/a> (laughs). Of course, I think I do get stubborn sometimes&#8230; But I remind myself that I don&#8217;t want to be stubborn.]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Mmhmm. Now, please elaborate on your other good points, things you like about yourself.<br \/>\n[My good points? It&#8217;s when I&#8217;m asked a question like this that I don&#8217;t want to say what my good points are, you know? It&#8217;s time to say &#8220;No comment&#8221; (laughs). Not to brag, but I have good aesthetics, don&#8217;t I? Probably.]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Is this because when you see someone bursting in with &#8220;Me, me, me!&#8221; you think &#8220;How uncool,&#8221; about them?<br \/>\n[Actually, no, I think it&#8217;s impressive. &#8220;I wish I could say things like that.&#8221; Usually, I think about balancing all sorts of things.]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; That might be it. Perhaps, tetsu-san, your strong point might be &#8220;not worrying&#8221; or something?<br \/>\n[That&#8217;s a strong point? (laughs) But, there are a lot of people who don&#8217;t worry about things. In this line of work, especially.]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; On the other hand, there are also a lot of people who get incredibly nervous, aren&#8217;t there? Going into their room an hour before the show starts, and so on&#8230;..<br \/>\n[That&#8217;s worrying too much. Thinking about only that. So, I&#8217;m sloppier (laughs). I think I&#8217;ll make myself into that kind of character, from now on. Because, I&#8217;ve got this image as a &#8220;hard to please, picky person&#8221; and I want to change that. I&#8217;m sloppy! (laughs) No, really. Before a show, I&#8217;m going &#8220;Uh oh! Only ten minutes left, I gotta get ready!&#8221; While I&#8217;m getting ready, I don&#8217;t have time to be nervous.]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; (laughs) Other than going on stage, do you get nervous about anything?<br \/>\n[Besides going on stage? When a lot of staff or band members are around, I get nervous about stating my own opinion. I get embarrassed. So, making an announcement in front of a school classroom makes me more nervous than performing at Tokyo Dome does&#8230;&#8230; Well, I don&#8217;t have to do that anymore, but before, I did, whenever I raised my hand in class to share my opinion&#8230;&#8230; but it wasn&#8217;t really nerves, just that I didn&#8217;t like it. When I don&#8217;t need to stand out, I don&#8217;t like to.]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; For example, when you state your opinion, you might be told &#8220;Fine then, you do it,&#8221;&#8230;&#8230;<br \/>\n[Ah, it&#8217;s easier to follow instructions. It&#8217;s tiring to be the one giving instructions. &#8220;Ah, they might do it all wrong,&#8221; or &#8220;I can&#8217;t let them handle it&#8221;&#8230; I don&#8217;t like looking after others like that.]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; But don&#8217;t you have to, because of your position?<br \/>\n[Since I&#8217;m the leader, there are things I have to look after, and things I need to do or say even though I don&#8217;t like to. Also, sometimes it won&#8217;t be my own opinion, but something we all agreed on, but it has to be me who passes on the message, and no matter what I do, I&#8217;m made out to be the bad guy, I&#8217;m misunderstood. Like they&#8217;re thinking &#8220;Why does tetsu get the last word?&#8221; That&#8217;s very hurtful, for me personally.]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; But don&#8217;t you think that&#8217;s a strong point, too? You have persuasive power, like &#8220;Since tetsu-san said so, let&#8217;s do it that way.&#8221;<br \/>\n[No waaaay, but it would be nice if that were true.]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Also, it&#8217;s a strong point for you, tetsu-san, to be able to think &#8220;That&#8217;s how it&#8217;s going to be&#8221; and stick with it as you move forward. For instance, since you thought &#8220;hyde&#8217;s best on vocals!&#8221; and pushed for that, ken-san&#8217;s energy was directed towards guitar when he joined.<br \/>\n[Well, when I&#8217;m that confident about something I can stick to it unwaveringly. I do have confidence in myself, and once I reach a certain degree of certainty about my own answer, I can argue for it. It&#8217;s just that, I have to reach the point where I&#8217;m sure &#8220;This is absolutely the right thing to do.&#8221; That is, it has to be best for me as well as for everyone else involved. When I say things like that, I seem like a very self-confident person, so I don&#8217;t want to do it very often.]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Is that so? I think that kind of strength is a very important quality in you.<br \/>\n[Nah, for me to think &#8220;This is absolutely the best way to go,&#8221; doesn&#8217;t happen all that often. Most of the time, I&#8217;m unsure. &#8220;This is good, that&#8217;s good, they&#8217;re both good&#8230;&#8221; is a lot more common. A clear cut &#8220;This is the best way&#8221; only happened a few times in my life.]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; So it&#8217;s even rarer for you to be confident about something and actually advance it?<br \/>\n[Guess so. I don&#8217;t understand myself, anymore. So I don&#8217;t want to talk about strong points. I&#8217;m sloppy!]<\/p>\n<p>Interviewer : Honma Yuuko<br \/>\nTranslated by Natalie Arnold<\/p>\n<h6>\n<a name=\"1\"><\/a><br \/>\n1. In Japanese, someone stubborn is said to have a &#8220;stone head,&#8221; much like the English term &#8220;hard-headed.&#8221; So, tetsu is saying he wants to be the opposite of stubborn, hence soft-headed.  <a href=\"node\/97\/#b1\">Go back.<\/a><br \/>\n<\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; When asked to name a strong point, something you can say &#8220;I&#8217;m better at this than other people&#8221; about, what comes to mind?<br \/>\n[Let&#8217;s see, I&#8217;m relatively quick about making changes, aren&#8217;t I? Even I think &#8220;I&#8217;ve changed!&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; That takes a lot of strength, doesn&#8217;t it? Even when it requires something you hate doing, you don&#8217;t let it drag on much?<br \/>\n[Hmmmm&#8230;&#8230; Well, it doesn&#8217;t really matter if I let it drag on or not. I get the change made. When your needs are pressing, you have to change. Even if I formerly held a certain opinion, if I think there needs to be a change, I&#8217;ll contradict it. Not moving forward is a waste of time. Well, that just means I&#8217;m &#8220;sloppy&#8221; about going back on my word (laughs).]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-97","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tetsugaku"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.larcompendium.com\/site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.larcompendium.com\/site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.larcompendium.com\/site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.larcompendium.com\/site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=97"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.larcompendium.com\/site\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.larcompendium.com\/site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=97"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.larcompendium.com\/site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=97"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.larcompendium.com\/site\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=97"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}